Sunday, November 06, 2005
In healthy love relationships, there is no second place
There is no longer any need to have one of you be number one and one of you be number two. Healthy people share. In a healthy love relationship, generosity expresses itself generously. Love partners are not afraid to share the spotlight.
We need to give up the idea of having to have any one of the two people who make up a relationship be subservient or number two. This idea takes some work because many people believe that one should be over the other. This is a bad idea.
When two people really love each other, they are not afraid to be their love partner's equal. Two people, each number one to each other and to the relationship, working together on similar things and accepting mutual responsibility when things are good and also when things are not so good, can only empower the relationship.
You give "of" yourself to the other. You never give "up" yourself to the other.
When you are both number one, no one ever has to worry about competition in the relationship. You never have to worry about oneupsmanship. When two people work together, they can accomplish more. It's the power of two working together as one.
If you want to experience a sense of revival in your relationships you must consistently push toward a state of continuing to be revived.
It is a do-it-yourself project.
We need to give up the idea of having to have any one of the two people who make up a relationship be subservient or number two. This idea takes some work because many people believe that one should be over the other. This is a bad idea.
When two people really love each other, they are not afraid to be their love partner's equal. Two people, each number one to each other and to the relationship, working together on similar things and accepting mutual responsibility when things are good and also when things are not so good, can only empower the relationship.
You give "of" yourself to the other. You never give "up" yourself to the other.
When you are both number one, no one ever has to worry about competition in the relationship. You never have to worry about oneupsmanship. When two people work together, they can accomplish more. It's the power of two working together as one.
If you want to experience a sense of revival in your relationships you must consistently push toward a state of continuing to be revived.
It is a do-it-yourself project.
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People who say that there will always be competition between partners are wrong. I know that the two of you can co-exist with both of you being number one. Those who strive to maintain their relationship a loving one understand that they have to complement each other, and that they need not compete with each other. Only through this kind of understanding will couples be able to achieve a happy life together.
Its true that couples must consider each other equal but still there are people who always want to prove themselves superior than their spouse.
Here comes two situations, one when an individual is doing something good as he/she wants to leave a good impression on their counter partner and it is healthy and natural. On the other hand are person who want to show that s/he is better. In second case the ego is very high which is disastrous.
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Here comes two situations, one when an individual is doing something good as he/she wants to leave a good impression on their counter partner and it is healthy and natural. On the other hand are person who want to show that s/he is better. In second case the ego is very high which is disastrous.
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